Alright ya'll!
To my avid readers, if you've paid attention I'm pretty sure I've mentioned several times about how much I love love love kissing and make-out sessions! Seriously, they're the fuckin' best!! Yes, it requires foul language because that's how serious and passionate I am about how much I love make-out sessions!
First and foremost, kissing is so important in a relationship, it just is... AND! It's also something that sort of sets the relationship up, I think it plays a big role in compatibility... maybe I'm stretching it by saying it plays a big role in compatibility, but for the most part it really sorta does. If two people have a horrible time kissing one another, they need to turn around and walk away...or run...whatever floats their boats. I'm going to go ahead and discredit first kisses on that one... well... maybe not... First kisses can be amazing (check out my post on some of my amazing first kisses), some can be "eh, not amazing but there's potential", and then some can be horrible in which the 2 people need to run or walk away. First kisses can be really stressful so that's why some of them slide from this rule.
There's a kiss that comes to mind that was really bad, actually 2 come to mind and they both shared the same quality.... well not quality (they weren't "grand" or anything like that), characteristic, they both shared the same characteristic.... one I'd like to call Dagger Tongue.... your tongue is not a weapon... no need to stab away at my tongue with that thing... sheesh!! Enough said.... those instances there was no connection and I politely said "no thank you" and walked away :)
Anyways! I went off on a little tangent! So if there's no chemistry in a kiss, then I kinda really do believe that there is no compatibility. Yeah both parties could take time to learn to be on the same kissing level, but really? Who would want to waste their time trying to enjoy kissing someone when they can just continue looking for the one who's tongue fancies theirs and vice versa.
So, there really is a major point to this post! Make-out sessions are hot.... hot make-out sessions truly make my day, probably even my week... yeah, my week too. There is so much raw, hot, sexual desire that's just being released by tongue on tongue action, bodies held tightly to one another, biting and sucking on lips and tongues RAWR!!! Ugh!!! I LOVE it! Which leads me to my major point!
While I love sex and enjoy it greatly, as so many of you out there do too, I feel that once sex gets involved those hot make-out sessions no longer hold all that power... it kinda dies. Kissing turns into little pecks or something that's an intro to sex. It's never just a back-in-the-day hot make-out session!
I mean shit, I'm a hypocrite when I say that I wish we could isolate make-out sessions from sex. I know how I work, and once sex in a relationship has been had, its hard NOT to let a hot make-out session lead to it.
One of the great things about super hot make-out sessions without sex after, is that it keeps you wanting more more more! It keeps that energy going, that flame burning longer! Which I think probably is a super healthy way to keep sexual desire up! Maybe that's a reason why passion tends to die out for some people in their relationships?
So, in conclusion, I have a proposition to ya'll out there in monogamous, sexual relationships. Try and isolate make-out sessions, and maybe do it when you know you don't have time to do the nasty. Maybe in the morning before heading out the door to work. Mmmmm just think about it!!!
This happened to me the other day, I had a super hot make-out session! The next day at work all I thought about was that make-out session.... it was so completely distracting and frustrating, but you bet your ass I can't wait to see that boy again so I can pounce his ass :)
So for those of you with your significant others, have a hot make-out session before going to work so you'll be thinking about each other all day so that when you get home from that long tiring day, there's no way you wont make time for some sweeeet lovin'!
POWER TO HOT MAKE-OUT SESSIONS!!!
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Sunday, January 16, 2011
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Interesting idea that compatibility in a relationship can be known within a kiss. I am not disagreeing but would like to offer up a slightly different view. What if two people were so connected on the spiritual and emotional levels that the physical is automatically awesome. That, no matter what grade they would get from the rest of society, the person they are making out with feels the sensations you are suggesting. Technique, while it is important, is not necessarily the deciding factor... wouldn't this leave room for growth and improvement within a relationship?
ReplyDeleteI hear ya, but that's the thing, the kiss wont suck if there's the awesome connection, so theres no worry about that kinda stuff...
ReplyDeleteand yeah, i was just being a silly ass, a bad kiss can leave room for growth and improvement. but sometimes there are those really bad kisses where connection and technique are not present at all.
Thanks for reading and commenting! i appreciate it! <3 N
My first boyfriend wasn't the best kisser ever, but I literally felt butterflies every time we kissed. For two whole years. I've been looking for that same feeling in every kiss since.
ReplyDeleteThen there was the time I fell asleep while making out... and then said something incomprehensible. And had to explain myself. Oops. But not my fault!
My girlfriend and I were walking around a lake the other day, and she asked me to sit down. I said, "What do you want to make out or something?"
ReplyDeleteand she said, "Yeah pretty much."
It was really cute for her to be so forward. We kiss a lot, we're big kissy people.
The only thing I hated about kissing when I was dating was people who would use tongue on the first kiss right away. It just kills the romanticness of everything
aww, i came by to see the new you, but only found the last post I posted on. :( Me sad. How are you Neomie? You're okay right?
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